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how can i orgasm when i masturbate?
i've been masturbating for years now. i'm 18 and i haven't yet orgasmed. i've used a toothbrush, a vibrating massager, my fingers, my showerhead, and i've inserted a dildo-like object. i still havent been able to orgasm. usually it just gets too intense and i stop. my body starts to tremble and i feel like i want to c*m but i never get that mind blowing feeling. i usually rub myself really fast and ive tried doing it slowly but im still not satisfied.
i've tried looking at porn and although it helps sometimes it still doesnt get me to where i want to get. and i've done that whole get myself in the mood thing but nothing. 
any tips?
btw, i still havent had sex yet
yes, i'm really trying. and my mom is like super anti masturbation so i cant talk to her about it
no, this is my first time asking this
It's possible you have gotten orgasms before, but you are expecting them to feel like something different, so you haven't realized it. They aren't always completely mind-blowing, as you put it. To me, they just feel like a heightened sense of pleasure (they feel distinctly different from the pleasure leading up to them, but not always WAY different). One way to tell that you are having one, is the muscles inside your vagina will contract, usually several times. If there is something inside your vagina at the time, you will especially feel this, but I can almost always feel it even when there is nothing in there (I often just masturbate touching my clitoris only). It sounds like you know about your body and have definitely experimented, so you might already know this, but most women can orgasm much easier from clitoral stimulation, as opposed to vaginal. A lot of women can't even orgasm at all from vaginal only. So make sure you're really giving your clitoris good attention. Added vaginal stimulation can sometimes help too, but like I said, if you're only doing vaginal, it often won't work. idk if you've heard this, but using the tip of your finger in a circular motion, directly on your clit, can be very effective. You don't need to be too hard, often gentle is actually better, but experiment, b/c it's different for everybody. Or try using something that vibrates on your clitoris (maybe even the head of an electric t-brush if you don't have a real vibrator), as that works better for some women than their finger. And just so you know, you will probably be way more likely to have an orgasm on your own, doing what YOU know you like, than when you have sex for the first time. So you have the right idea by experimenting alone now to find out what you like... that way, you will hopefully be able to share this knowledge with the guy you're w/ later, when you do eventually have sex. Masturbation can be good for your emotional health, and it's a good way of calming desires when you don't have a boyfriend or don't want to have sex yet.
Oh, and try putting your body in different positions. I usually just do it standing up, cuz it's easy, but some girls say they can orgasm easier from different positions. Some like lying down, some like squatting, some standing, etc. And this is really bizarre (there may not be any real basis to it), but for some reason I've noticed mine are more intense when I put strain on, (or flex, I guess) my lower legs, by standing on my tip toes. I've never heard anyone else say that though, so who knows. And you said you tried the showerhead, but you could try putting it on a more intense flow, or actually running the bath water at a high level directly on you clitoris. lol just relax and hopefully it will come. Don't be too impatient, and don't have any preconceived expectations, b/c sometimes it's not like how you're imagining it, but it almost always is nice anyway. 
